MizB is a stunned, weary 20th Century woman struggling to cope with the horror and banality of the present as she reflects on the facts of the past and the unknown of the future.
Since we’re just three
weeks from Election Day, I think now would be a good time to remember that
there are other important considerations besides The Economy
(unemployment/debt/deficit/taxes) and the country’s biggest-ticket-items: Defense,
Medicare, Medicaid, Social Security and health care.
Of course all this is critical – especially since the Presidential opponents
have significantly different ideas about how to handle them.
But the “ancillary” issues
that are dismissed in some quarters as "distractions" are in fact very important. They
literally define what our country is now and what it will be in
the future: our culture, our values - not in some uptight religious sense, but having a collective, humane agreement about what matters.Most of these issueshave something to do with women, because the category of "woman" overlaps or underpins almost everything else.
All the major stuff, plus: the future of
the Supreme Court, green energy, effective foreign policy, youth
and adult education, poverty, hunger, homelessness, the erosion of hard won
civil- and voting-rights, Gay Rights and Marriage Equality, immigration and the Dream Act, progressive
science, the environment, infrastructure, reforms and regulations, the
arts and humanities, fighting voter suppression and the lie of voter fraud - all the things that are the essence of our democracy and literally civilize us and make us great.
Women’s rights, woes, and unbalanced
status in America and around the world personify the very real culture clashes that define our times. And it's an outrage that it's happening here in America. After
decades of struggle to earn the right to vote,
not to mention personal autonomy, property
ownership, professional opportunity, pay equity and more, women are now in real danger of losing control of our own bodies due to a growing lack of basic
and preventive health care, and access to legal abortion and contraception, some of which require enduring intrusive, unnecessary medical procedures and
stressful waiting periods. The
repeal of Roe v Wade is a very real possibility in a Conservative/Republican
administration.
However, the greatest
problem women face – to a much lesser extent here in America but to a vast
extent around the world (particularly but not exclusively in the Muslim World)
– is atrocious oppression, abuse and violence. You’re no doubt aware of the 14-year
old Pakistani girl who was recently shot in the head by a Taliban terrorist
because she wrote a blog and spoke out against the Taliban and advocating
education for women. According to CNN’s
Christiane Amanpour, “The United Nations mission in Afghanistan says it
verified 34 attacks against schools in just the first six months of this year, ‘including
cases of burnings of school buildings, targeted killings and intimidation of
teachers and school officials, armed attacks against and occupation of schools,
and closures, particularly of girls’ schools’.”
And let us not forget the
routine honor killings, stonings, cutting off women's noses, acid attacks, indentured servitude, sexual slavery and rape
as a tactic of war and cultural intimidation that are central to radical
Islamic Shariah Law. In addition, throughout
Africa and elsewhere, female genital mutilation is traditional. More recently, the gang rape of lesbians in
order to “turn them into proper African women” has become common, as well as
the rape of young girls (including infants and toddlers) because it’s believed
that sex with a virgin will cure or prevent AIDS.
While most of this behavior is not an
American issue per se, some of it is. Rape,
sexual slavery (of children and women) and severe domestic violence are very
much American problems – particularly growing violence against girlfriends by
teens and young men. And there are millions of educated-but-ignorant young women who cluelessly ignore these matters and truly believe they're living a solid post-feminist reality. The have no real understanding of history and are contributing nothing to the existing, still-valiant struggle - because "feminist" has become an old-fashioned, bad word. They're the Starbucks Generation.
Which feeds in (you should pardon the expression) to America's benefits for the poor that so many
people seem to bitterly resent: Welfare and Food Stamps. Separately or
combined, they barely provide the ability to survive. Although many
Americans picture Welfare
recipients as burly black men laying around the house watching 60”
televisions,
and Food Stamps recipients as people using these benefits for
non-nutritional
purposes, like buying booze and frequenting strip clubs. These
stereotypes
couldn’t be farther from the truth. The vast majority of people on
Welfare and
Food Stamps are white women and their minor children and their lives are brutal. These women
are generally unskilled,
under-educated to the point of illiteracy, and plagued by severe
mental/ emotional problems, too. (Abject poverty, constant worry and
social disdain
can do that to a person.)
Which brings us back to
the fact that women’s health, safety, freedom and prosperity are very much an important part
of the 2012 campaign – domestically and as a foreign policy issue. Secretary
of State Hillary Clinton has made great efforts and some strides in the area of
women’s rights by vocally supporting education, professional opportunity and personal
freedom, and forcefully speaking out against horrific violence and oppression of women. Republican John R. Bolton – George W. Bush’s
ambassador to the U.N. and a specialist on security and arms control – is said
to be Romney’s top contender for Clinton’s post should he win the Presidency. Do you imagine Bolton would make the crises and
needs of women a top priority as he travels the world?
How women's issues are
addressed – and whether they are addressed at all – will, for years to come, be a revealing part of what
kind of country we are and strive to be.
I don’t believe that Romney/Ryan support heinous violence against women
here or abroad. But I also don’t think
they have the awareness, sensitivity, and concern we need in the White House, Congress and
Senate. For example, important legislation that would
have helped combat extensive sexual slavery in America has been defeated
numerous times by Republicans. They want small government, but they want it to be just big enough to control women, especially sexually. How long can women here and abroad be denied, defiled, and controlled by men with much power and little compassion?
Human beings are more
important than money, but ironically, a greater empowerment of women in all
ways would be a genuine boon to our economy and those of developing countries who are nonetheless determined to keep women in the Dark Ages.
So gentlemen, please don’t forget your mothers, wives, sisters, daughters, and all the
other women in your life when you vote next month.
And ladies, don’t forget the life and liberty you protect may be your
own – and perhaps those of our sisters worldwide.
MizB is a single, 67-year-old, born-and-bred New Yorker, raised in the Bronx and (primarily) Brooklyn by her White/Jewish mother and Black (West Indian)/Episcopalian father; she steadfastly considers herself biracial. She is an Old School Liberal who participated in the major human rights movements of her time: Civil Rights, Women’s Rights, anti-Vietnam War, and Gay Rights. She is greatly distressed by the stupidity, rigidity and meanness of contemporary politics. She is a secular Jew and a spiritual appreciator of the life and cosmic mysteries for which we have no answers. She is an ordained Interfaith Minister of Spiritual Counseling as well as a certified Professional Tarot Reader. She has no sense of connection to animals, nature or children. She hugely dislikes the majority of communications technology and social media that have taken over the world's hearts, capacity to think, and to use language effectively. She is an unrepentant cigarette smoker (makes her own) and is not ashamed of being fat! She loves actual paper books, 60s folk music, rock'n'roll, and folk/rock, detective fiction, really old movies, public television, smart stand-up comedy, and great food of all kinds. She is passionate about language and hates the way it is being increasingly degraded, devalued, and replaced with symbols and acronyms. MizB is a nice woman with a wonderful sense of humor, but an admitted curmudgeon - and with every passing year, she finds herself changing in profound and multiple ways.
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